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A Life-Changing Tool Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About
What if the key to happiness, success, and love was as simple as two words?
If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated with where you are, the problem isn’t you. The problem is the power you give to other people. Two simple words—Let Them—will set you free. Free from the opinions, drama, and judgments of others. Free from the exhausting cycle of trying to manage everything and everyone around you. The Let Them Theory puts the power to create a life you love back in your hands—and this book will show you exactly how to do it.
In her latest groundbreaking book, The Let Them Theory, Mel Robbins—New York Times bestselling author and one of the world’s most respected experts on motivation, confidence, and mindset—teaches you how to stop wasting energy on what you can’t control and start focusing on what truly matters: YOU. Your happiness. Your goals. Your life.
Using the same no-nonsense, science-backed approach that’s made The Mel Robbins Podcast a global sensation, Robbins explains why The Let Them Theory is already loved by millions and how you can apply it in eight key areas of your life to make the biggest impact. As you listen, you’ll realize how much energy and time you’ve been wasting trying to control the wrong things—at work, in relationships, and in pursuing your goals—and how this is keeping you from the happiness and success you deserve.
Written as an easy-to-understand guide, Robbins shares relatable stories from her own life, highlights key takeaways, relevant research and introduces you to world-renowned experts in psychology, neuroscience, relationships, happiness, and ancient wisdom who champion The Let Them Theory every step of the way.
Learn how to:
Stop wasting energy on things you can’t controlStop comparing yourself to other peopleBreak free from fear and self-doubtRelease the grip of people’s expectationsBuild the best friendships of your lifeCreate the love you deservePursue what truly matters to you with confidenceBuild resilience against everyday stressors and distractionsDefine your own path to success, joy, and fulfillment
…and so much more.
The Let Them Theory will forever change the way you think about relationships, control, and personal power. Whether you want to advance your career, motivate others to change, take creative risks, find deeper connections, build better habits, start a new chapter, or simply create more happiness in your life and relationships, this book gives you the mindset and tools to unlock your full potential.
Order your copy of The Let Them Theory now and discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words.
Customers say
Customers find the book easy to comprehend and helpful in navigating relationships, with one describing it as a page-turner. Moreover, they appreciate how it guides readers through reducing stress and calming the nervous system, and consider it a valuable self-help novel. However, the book receives mixed feedback regarding its relatability, with some finding it very relatable while others find it repetitive. Additionally, opinions on value for money are divided, with some considering it an amazing purchase while others say it’s not worth their time.
Out Of The Box Thinker –
What a great liberating book that comes at just the right time!
I love this book so much! This book focuses on what I call the new liberation model versus the old model that was conditioned and programed into us that we currently find ourselves currently mirrored in with components of power, control, corruption, stress, fear, elitist, immaturity, righteousness, polarization, tribalism, narcissism, stubborn, rigid and/or chaos, negativity bias, over-thinking, complaining, know-it-all, judgmental, critical, egotistical (ego), selfish/group selfishness, contradictory, superiority, hypocritical, comparison, competitiveness, fighting & arguing, fragmented society, entitlement, perfectionism, identifying/over-identifying with your beliefs, ideological, misery, victim mentality, we are right and your group is wrong/we are good and your group is bad, drama triangle, drama addiction, neuroticism, codependency, terrible at relationships (especially with people who think or believe differently than you and with people who can think outside of the current box/boxes), moral superiority, increased mental health issues, increased medical health issues, lots of news addiction, social media addiction, political addiction, political righteousness and political radicalness too.Thank you to those (like Mel Robbins) that are doing deeper mental health therapy work on themselves to be better human beings, transform themselves, and to be better version of themselves. Mel is a great example of a genuine, vulnerable, real, whole and authentic role model and a real leader in our society!The best thing Mel Robbins said on a podcast recently was something like this, “You are the “project” and the “project” is to work on yourself and the goal of each human being is to work on your own “project” of yourself…..so much truth and wisdom in this!Thank you to those humans, researchers and mental health/medical professionals/other professionals advocating for the newer integration model, newer liberation model, and self actualizing model Separation, siloed, & polarization group models never work long term, are very immature and go against the laws of nature.The other books that are like this are: “Liberated Love”, “Unhealthy Helping”, “Beyond Anxiety” and “Dissolving the Ego”, “The Way of Integrity”, “On Fear”, “Living Untethered”, “Facing Codependence” and “No Bad Parts”.Remember, the younger generation is watching and witnessing all of this toxic & dysfunctional mess. Hopefully, the younger generation will learn from this and not be anything like the older generations.Please do us all a big favor and go work on yourselves with mental health therapy work. Working on yourself is the only true, real, authentic way to transform a society. Anything less, is just superficial, shallow, and surface level change. Pease look at my first paragraph and I think most humans will see many items in that first paragraph to work on in therapy.Most of the human traits in my first paragraph are terrible for your relationships and connections in general.It is interesting that the USA Western culture teaches and trains people to be in your own ego and (the ego is the highest priority) The USA mantra is “Your own ego and what your ego or what the group ego wants is all that matters” and “I have all the answers”(ego) where the Eastern culture has their highest attainment is enlightenment and self actualization and they teach their culture that: “We do not have all the answers” (humble). The Eastern mantra is “Drop your own ego, practice non attachment and work towards self actualization and enlightenment”. I wonder what culture is doing better right now?You could also try a meditation class or a yoga class (or do one on youtube) to see if you can calm down your brain, body, mind, and your ego! It might also improve your relationships if you are in a calmer, flexible and more loving state of mind. Plus, you might gain more creative, innovative, and ingenuity problem solving skills (which the USA culture really seems to have rarity of these skills nowadays).It is interesting that the USA has so much moral superiority, righteousness, egotistical and a know-it-all attitude considering we have the worst education data, longevity data, medical conditions data, IQ data, mental health data, prescription drug data, human trafficking data, obesity data, corruption/political corruption (both sides), suicide rate data, addiction rate data,, murder rates data, and criminal rate data than most of the 1st world countries.”It Is No Measure of Health to Be Well Adjusted To a Profoundly Sick Society”-Jiddu Krishnamurti
Susan315ny –
Would buy again
Overall good. I love the concept and find myself repeating phrases she teaches in my head often. I added one though before the let them. I added” let go” and then her advice of” let them” and” then let me”. I listened to the audio book while painting my bedroom and re-doing the floors. It’s not a boring listen. Her voice keeps my interest and attention. Some of the things I don’t agree with but most I do and I think that’s the way with any advice/self help book. I would buy again and plan to listen to it again.
yougokjojo –
great but could use another round of editing
Great book, great message, great skillset to master. I saw at least 5 typos or mistakes in both kindle and physical print, could use another round of edits.The books speaks to many types of people and uses real, relatable (to the majority) examples to talk through the ideals. However, some things weren’t actually that relevant to me and felt a tad redundant.Overall, the book was engaging and a quick non fiction read! Definitely would t recommend.
Nike7 –
I can’t stop saying let them
Mel Robbins has done it again. And to start this I will say I am a big Mel fan. I have read her other books and audibles, my favorite is Take Control of your life. So I’m a longterm fan I also listen to her podcat. With that in mind my expectations were high for Let Them especially because Mel said it’s the best thing she’s created and OPrah gave it really high praise. I had oredered the book but it didn’t come yet so I got the kindle version here to start reading it, I can’t wait for my phsical book too but I didn’t want to wait because I wanted to read it, now that i’m done I’m going to get the audiobook too. Okay – so you are probably wondering, if I heard the podcast on it, do I still need this? The answer is YES. i just love the book. It covers so much. Way more thna I was expecting? The big reveal of let them AND let me makes this so deep and it covers so many different parts of your life you can use it. Yes you can get ‘say let them” after a chapter but Mel takes the theory into so many siotuations and shares so much research and ways to use it, I kept learning so much. My favorite is the sections about family. I was with my family over the holidays and could not stop saying LET THEM. I told everyone to let them. I told evertyone about this book! They may be sick of me saying let them… to that I say let them. My favorite section of the book though is the part about INFLUENCE. So I say let them, now what? I don’t like how they act that’s it? NOPE Mel says you need to use your influence to make your relationships better. I love hjow in a world where people are so quick to cut people off, leave them behind, think you’re better without [eople, let them is about bringing you TOGETHER with people. It’s such a needed messave in our divided world. I am already using the ABCD loop with people I know. The other sections I liked the most: dating section (was sharing tips with my brother who is currently looking to meet someone) and who you use let them there, FRIENDSHIP section, Mel I really needed that, the comparison section is so important, and most of all I love the part about how to help loves ones who are struggling. the entire book offers such a compassionate, approch that feels so loving to both others and yourself. I thogut after following Mel for so long, I didn’t know if I would learn anything new, but I learned SO MUCH. What didn’t I like about it? Well honestly not much. I do wish there was more on parenting in the book, but what’s cool is Mel has a bonus section in the book with a full extra chapter you can download about parenting, which I already read and that is really good, but I wish there was even more content there. but overall I just loved this book. It’s given me so much to think about and work on in 2025. I also want my husband to read this, now that I read the ebook I’ll give him my printbook when that arrives. Overall this was a great read and I am really glad I took the time to read it.
Tania Thomas –
One of my favorites!
I already followed Mel Robbins podcast before and I am not the most avid reader but this book is amazing. It addresses so many common challenges we all face in life and will give you so much clarity, ease and motivation!
Amazon Customer –
Let Me take control of my life
Great book for anyone suffering from feeling insecure, motivation, fear of disappointment, low self-esteem. Mel does a great job of letting these people that they are loved, they do matter, and they can take control of their lives. A very easy read. Great book.
Donna –
Such great practical advice with some nice examples to commit the practices to memory
Mrs Michelle Werb –
Fantastic well written comprehensive book. Beautiful layout and so informative. Every women struggling with understanding the changes in their bodies should read this. Great read for the husbands too .. will really give them an insight 😊
Lucie –
Very well written book, inspiring and motivating. I have shared my book with many, to let them read it, but most important, I have devoured it, to let me move on with my life. Thank you Mel!
Clvtch –
J’ai l’habitude de Mel Robbins et c’est encore un sans faute. Beaucoup de redite mais ça fait du bien.
Priscila –
O livro é realmente incrível, com linguagem fácil e exemplos que nos conectam facilmente com os preceitos da teoria. O único ponto negativo para mim é a capa que é solta e fica caindo toda hora, que realmente não foi uma boa escolha da editora.